About Us

We’re Dr. Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander, a married couple living in Vermont.

Bruce has been helping individuals, couples, and families in private practice for over thirty years. His practice is now focused on couples. Bruce’s practice website is at this link.

Bruce’s other notable interests include musical composition, performance, and choral directing.

Bruce is the author of Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Backand It’s Not About Communication! Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong.

Judy recently retired after 23 years as education director at Temple Sinai, a Reform Jewish congregation in South Burlington, Vermont. Previously, she was a classroom teacher, and was also an award-winning advertising copywriter. She is also a playwright, with several of her plays having been produced at theater festivals.

Judy and Bruce have five adult children, and a delightful collection of grandchildren!

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